In high-stakes environments (whether negotiations, intelligence work, or leadership) being unreadable can be a superpower.
If people can’t decipher your thoughts, emotions, or intentions, you maintain control over interactions.
But is it truly possible to suppress micro-expressions?
Can you manipulate body language to project false signals?
Let’s break it down with science-backed insights and actionable techniques you can use.
1. Can you control micro-expressions?
Short answer: not really.
Micro-expressions are involuntary facial reactions that last between 1/25 to 1/5 of a second. They are hard to fake because they originate from the limbic system, the brain’s emotional center (Ekman, 2003) and they are universal!
However, training can reduce their impact. Studies suggest that elite spies, intelligence officers, and experienced negotiators develop greater control over micro-expressions through self-awareness and practice (Matsumoto & Hwang, 2018).
Actionable tips:
Increase emotional awareness: If you control your emotions at the source, you reduce involuntary reactions.
Use biofeedback training: Devices that monitor heart rate variability (HRV) help regulate emotional responses.
Practice emotional masking: Actors and professional poker players train their faces to react differently than they feel.
Paul Ekman, the pioneer in micro-expression research, found that while most people involuntarily leak emotions, trained individuals can suppress or alter expressions consciously.
2. Is it possible to control body language completely?
Unlike micro-expressions, body language is more controllable, but certain subconscious gestures still betray stress or deception.
People under stress tend to:
✔️ Touch their face or neck (self-soothing)
✔️ Shift weight or fidget (discomfort)
✔️ Blink more frequently (anxiety)
However, professionals trained in deception detection don’t rely on single cues: they look for clusters of signals before making a judgment (Vrij, 2008). What I called the "Five Channels", you can learn more about this in our online courses.
Actionable tips:
Neutralize unnecessary movements: Keep your hands steady, avoid fidgeting, and control posture.
Reduce pacifying gestures: Be aware of self-touching (rubbing hands, playing with jewelry, scratching).
Control blinking rate: Deliberately slow down your blinking pattern when in high-pressure situations.
3. Can you fake body language to mislead?
Yes, it’s possible to intentionally project false cues to manipulate perception. This is used in intelligence, law enforcement, and even sales... You can exaggerate certain traits. I'll give you a simple example we probably all did once in our lives.
Someone you love organized a surprise for you, but you know about this already. You don't want to hurt them, so when the surprise comes, you "play" it surprised. You exaggerate the expressions that you identified as "being surprised", and apply them to "deceive" your love one in believing that you are.
Tactics to Induce False Perceptions:
Fake nervousness to lower expectations: Before negotiations, appearing uncertain can make the opponent underestimate you.
Feign confidence through open posture: Expanding your stance, keeping a relaxed face, and controlled breathing signal dominance.
Use "mirroring" to build rapport: Copying subtle movements of the other person creates subconscious trust.
Actionable Tips:
Control breathwork: A slow, deep breath before answering a question can make you appear composed.
Use deliberate pauses: Instead of reacting instantly, pause for a few seconds to gather thoughts.
Maintain a steady voice: A lower tone with controlled pacing projects authority and confidence.
4. Training yourself to be unreadable
Mastering unreadability is about awareness, control, and practice. Here’s how you can train daily:
Video analysis: Record yourself speaking under different emotional states and analyze your facial expressions and body movements.
Poker face drills: Practice storytelling while consciously suppressing emotion (as poker players do).
Neuroscience-based meditation: Techniques like mindfulness and controlled breathing (e.g., the 4-7-8 method) help regulate the autonomic nervous system, reducing visible stress cues.
Subtle deception practice: Experiment with giving false tells in casual conversations and observe reactions.
Being unreadable isn’t about being emotionless: it’s about strategic emotional control. The best intelligence operatives, CEOs, and negotiators don’t suppress emotions entirely but manage how they are perceived.
✔️ You can train yourself to suppress micro-expressions.
✔️ Body language is controllable with awareness and practice.
✔️ You can fake signals to manipulate perception.
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